Welcome to

The Rebellion

This is a space for the quietly burned out, the beautifully complicated, and the ones craving something softer. Here, you’ll find reflections on nervous system health, burnout recovery, emotional regulation, self-trust, perimenopause, identity shifts, and the messy magic of being human.

Expect equal parts science and soul, with a touch of humor and zero pressure to optimize anything. Whether you're deep in healing, toe-dipping into rest, or just looking for a better way to be with yourself—you're in the right place.

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What Is Life Coaching? A Complete Guide
Jaime Murphy Jaime Murphy

What Is Life Coaching? A Complete Guide

Imagine you know exactly what you want — more confidence, a cleaner relationship with your past, a career that doesn't drain you by Tuesday morning — but something keeps getting in the way. Not a lack of information. Not a lack of effort. Just a gap between where you are and where you're trying to go..

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What Is the Vagus Nerve and Why Should You Care About It?
Jaime Murphy Jaime Murphy

What Is the Vagus Nerve and Why Should You Care About It?

Imagine this for a moment, you're sitting in Tempe or Phoenix traffic, already late, and your chest is doing that tight, compressed thing it does. Your jaw is clenched and muscles are tight. Your brain is spiraling running worst-case scenarios. You think you should be able to just calm down but that feels impossible. And the harder you try, the more wound up you get.

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The Ritual of Letting Go: A Science-Based Approach to Closure
Jaime Murphy Jaime Murphy

The Ritual of Letting Go: A Science-Based Approach to Closure

Letting go isn’t mystical. It isn’t a vibe. It’s neurological.

Humans struggle with closure because the brain is built to complete unfinished loops. When something ends without resolution, your nervous system keeps it open in the background, scanning for safety, meaning or repair. This is why unfinished conversations, unresolved grief and unspoken truths carry more weight than the events that actually ended cleanly.

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How to Ask for Accommodations: Trauma-Aware Scripts That Work
Jaime Murphy Jaime Murphy

How to Ask for Accommodations: Trauma-Aware Scripts That Work

You need an accommodation. Asking feels risky. That’s normal. You can make it safer by preparing your body, your words, and an exit plan.

What you should know

Employers must provide reasonable accommodations to qualified employees with disabilities unless it causes undue hardship. That’s the legal standard in the U.S. under the ADA and enforced by the EEOC.

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Your Teen Thinks You're Cringe (And... They Might Be Right)
Jaime Murphy Jaime Murphy

Your Teen Thinks You're Cringe (And... They Might Be Right)

Your teen thinks you’re a mess.

Not just a little scatterbrained or "quirky”—no, a full-blown, caffeine-fueled, sock-finding, appointment-forgetting, snack-policing, unpredictable force of midlife nature. And honestly? She’s not entirely wrong.

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